Yes Chagga daughters who lead Lilia Marriage

In my limited research shows that all the tribes here Bongo Mtzee , daughters of the Chagga tribe is mainly lead to cry marriage. Yani you sit him on the relationships within a period not exceeding a year , he must have been started to cry marriage. Now I pray to know that it is a matter of psychological or what their traditions zinavyowafundisha do it? Many daughters of another tribe becomes a patient, even if they are crying , they are crying deep inside and you can not know until you decide to declare a hunger manfully to put in ..